Thursday, April 15, 2010

The Game is BACK 4 real this time


So its official according to BET.com and other cast members on their twitter accounts The Game is back. I'm so excited I hope everyone has got caught up with all of the reruns on BET I know I have. I'm jogging thru my mind and I can't think of any other "Black" show with an all black cast that is on right now. So this will be a major step up for Black Hollywood. I think they are going to come out swinging with special guest stars and the whole nine yard. This show has gained a whole new fan base just from the reruns on BET. Man this is so good cause that whole male cast can get it talking about some sexy men lol and they had them all in their under ware and stuff great day for the black gays as well. We have to make sure we support them and watch this show, let's give them the rating they deserve. I have to have a Game premiere party lol. Not sure when they will go back into production but like that said its on.

Obama: gay partners should have hospital access



WASHINGTON – Hospitals that accept Medicare and Medicaid payments must let patients choose which persons, including gay and lesbian partners, can visit them and help make critical health decisions, President Barack Obama said Thursday.

Gay rights advocates hailed the move as a major step toward fairness for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans.

"This is a critical step in ending discrimination against LGBT families and ensuring that, in the event of a hospital stay, all Americans have the right to see their loved ones," said House Speaker Nancy Pelosi, D-Calif.

With no fanfare, the White House on Thursday night released a statement by Obama instructing the Health and Human Services Department to draft rules requiring federally subsidized hospitals to grant all patients the right to designate people who can visit and consult with them at crucial moments.

The designated visitors should have the same rights that immediate family members now enjoy, Obama's instructions said. It said Medicare-Medicaid hospitals, which include most of the nation's facilities, may not deny visitation and consultation privileges on the basis of race, color, national origin, religion, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity or disability.

The new rules, Obama said, should "guarantee that all patients' advance directives, such as durable powers of attorney and health care proxies, are respected," and that patients' designees be able to "make informed decisions regarding patients' care."

Some gay advocacy groups say Obama has moved too slowly to fulfill campaign promises to expand their civil rights. The nation's top military leaders recently said it is time to end the "don't ask, don't tell" policy that has kept gays from serving openly in the armed services.

The Human Rights Campaign, which backs gay rights, said Obama's hospital decision was inspired in part by a New York Times article about a lesbian couple in Miami. They were kept apart while one lay dying in a hospital despite having an "advanced health care directive" asking for full visitation rights for each other.

"Discrimination touches every facet of the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, including at times of crisis and illness," said HRC President Joe Solmonese. "The president's action today will help ensure that the indignities" suffered by the Miami patient and her children will not happen to others.

In his statement, Obama said: "Every day, all across America, patients are denied the kindnesses and caring of a loved one at their sides — whether in a sudden medical emergency or a prolonged hospital stay. Often, a widow or widower with no children is denied the support and comfort of a good friend."

He added: "Also uniquely affected are gay and lesbian Americans who are often barred from the bedsides of the partners with whom they may have spent decades of their lives — unable to be there for the person they love, and unable to act as a legal surrogate if their partner is incapacitated."

Without the expanded visitor-designation rights, Obama said, "all too often, people are made to suffer or even to pass away alone, denied the comfort of companionship in their final moments while a loved one is left worrying and pacing down the hall."

By CHARLES BABINGTON, Associated Press Writer Charles Babington, Associated Press Writer

Monday, April 12, 2010

My crash diet Week 2

Ok Week 2 was really really hard for me. I went to a basketball game with some friends and there was nothing there for me too eat, but OMG there was so many things that I wanted to eat nachos,burgers, fries. You name it and it was there so while all my friends got all that stuff the only thing I could get was some damn peanuts and a bottle of water that cost me $8.00. Then after going to the bathroom I found these honey roasted peacans that I love so much that has nothing but sugar on them. So feeling so restricted I got the pecans and then the next day I went to the Waffle House and got some waffles that I had been craving and OMG it was so so good. So I thought that week was gonna be such a bust but I ended up knocking off 8 pounds so I was happy about that 18 pounds in 2weeks. I was feeling good about the 18 ponds until I went and took mt drivers licences pictures today and I saw how fat my face was and got a little sad, but the fight must go on hopefully this week will be better.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

RIP Dixir Carter


Dixie Carter the star of Designing Women died Saturday morning. The Family have not released where or the cause of death Dixie was 70 years of age. Man this really saddens me I loved me some Julia Sugarbaker on Designing Women. I had no idea that she was that old. The last time I remember seeing her was on Desperate Housewives. Julia use to read the kids for filth lol. RIP Dixie who well always be Julia Sugarbaker to me.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Tyler Perry on Oprah


(If you have not seen Why did I get married too Stop spoiler alert)Okay I know I'm really behind on this show, but I DVR everything and watch it when I can. So that's my excuse for this late comment. Today I watched Oprah with Janet Jackson and Tyler Perry and Oprah asked him a question " How can you write for women so well?" and then says my Mother. Chile please that ain't why U write so well for women I think Mr Perry is gay, and trust me that's nobody concerns but his own.
Its funny because just a few days ago me and a good friend of mine was talking about this very same thing and I broke it down why I think Tyler is gay or bi.
Tyler character in both WDIGM movies is the only male to play the victim by his wife man please stop acting like a little bitch. In part 2 Tyler character Terry recalls dates, times and all kind of stuff from the past about Diana's activities. I'm sorry ain't no straight man that intuitive to recall all of that. That my friend is the trait of a woman not a man.
Then in all of his movies and plays he has the finest men nice body, good looking the whole package, and if he does have a man that his fat or something they are playing a comic character like Mr Brown or something. Gay men love beat glamours divas and guess what thats all Tyler has in his movies, and now I read a article about Tyler, saying he does not think being in a relationship is for him because he is to busy and he has homes all over the place now, please I think he only said that because we ain't gonna see him with any woman and that's his excuse why. No its not its because your gay Tyler you have been in the limelight for years and we have never seen you with a woman. I don't care how a man was raised when he comes into fame and money like Tyler did he gone fuck around and when he does have a date she looks like some paid skinny trophy date model. I'm just sitting back and waiting for this too all come to light. If he is gay I can understand why he does not share that if he himself has already came to terms with it, but as a gay man myself it sickens me when someone who is gay denies it.

Sunday, April 4, 2010

My crash diet Week 1

Okay so today was the weigh in for my crash diet. I have 6 weeks to try and drop as many pounds as I can. I set a very high and crazy goal of 48 pounds in 6 weeks, and today the scale told me I lost 10 big ones!!!!! I was so so excited and thrilled and now I'm going into week 2 and its getting a little harder, but I'm going to stay strong and keep it up.
I still have not made a decision about the Houston trip or My Lil brothers graduation, I think I will make a decision in 4 weeks when I see what this body is looking like. Ive been waiting to see this man again for an whole year and I just don't want him to see me all fat lol. So in 4 weeks if it does not look like I will be tight and right. Off to the graduation I go and I will try and plan a trip to DC later this summer.

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Badu gets FINED


The Dallas police department has formally charged Ms Badu. They have slapped Ms. Badu with a disorderly conduct charge and a citation will be issued.
I must say even has a fan of Badu and this new album I think its only fair she is fined. I myself thought the video was a little bit too much, and you know Im wayyy out there lol. I think that same video could have been achieved in a studio green room or even in a somewhat less busy area of the city where there are no kids walking around looking @ a grown woman's Kat. If I was a parent or even had my niece or nephew with me I think I would be upset. If it was just me or some friends I would have no problem with it.
Parents are the ones who get to decided what their children will be exposed to. No one should make that decision for you no matter what kind of message you are trying to spread. .I'm so very thankful that's all they are trying to do with Ms Badu is a fine. You know they can be real ugly when it comes too our people or things they don't understand.
I still say go get this CD I love it and I think she is a great artist that just maybe bad a wrong choice after all she is only human.

Janet on 106 and Park


My My My is it just me, or is it every time Janet makes an appearance she looks smaller. The one thing I can say about Janet is when she is ready to drop that weight the girl will do it. Her and Malik Yoba stopped by BET's 106 and Park to promote their new movie "Why did I get married Too"
Speaking of this movie I just saw it today and I loved it! Janet is becoming a better actress with each project. Everyone held their own in this movie I laughed, I cried I did it all. The one thing I would love to happen is for Tyler Perry to come out of the closet lol, but for real this is a must see movie you can't see part 1 and not see this one.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

JHud does weight watchers


Jennifer Hudson becomes the new spokes person for Weight Watchers. My girl has been looking Oh so good lately. I have always thought she was a pretty girl with a nice healthy curvy shape, but she is slimming down and looking even better.
I'm so happy for her she has had it rough these past couple of years and she has really been looking happy these days. I wish her nothing but the best and can't wait till the next CD.